There is usually a moment, the precious one, when one´s mind goes "click" and everything shakes to its foundations. What was fine is nasty, and what was a naïf idea is the only way ahead. There is moment when something shouts "stop" deep there in our innermost. And then it is just a matter of time to send that "stop" outside to grow and grow and grow and meet our siblings face to face. All our siblings.